Phase 2 of The House Behind The Trees ~ The downstairs #TeelsBuildaHouse

So we are starting the downstairs ... I HATE to say basement because we had a basement in our old home, where you opened a door and went down stairs separated from anything else. It was a finished basement complete with a bedroom, craft room, family/game room and we spent a lot of time there ~ our oldest son moved down there in jr high and stayed through high school ... until we finished the master suite in the attic then he moved back up to the bedroom floor with his brother and sister.  So here our downstairs is open to the rest of the house, you can see through to the outside from the top of the stairs going down because we have a wall of windows down there as well.  We really didn't plan to have a kiddo down there but since we are having to do a switch-a-roo with rooms (I'll explain later) he is moving home soon and will be downstairs. Anyhoo, our downstairs will house our main family room, our middle sons room, a full bath and kitchenette.  I thought it would be fun ...

No Regrets

"He who gains Wisdom loves his own life; he who keeps understanding shall prosper and find good." Proverbs 19:8

Regret is one of the primary results of wrong choices ~ it means “to feel sorry, disappointed or distressed about something.” The world is full of people who live with regret ~ I being one of them ~ and it’s a terrible thing for us to do to ourselves!

Living in an attitude of sorrow and regret simply robs us of the joy we could experience every day and of our hope for a better tomorrow. When wrong choices cause regret, we need to deal with it and let it teach us how to make better choices in the future.

I understand firsthand that wrong choices lead to regret. One area where I made a bad choice was in choosing to become a smoker at the age of 18. If I hadn't made this choice some 20 years ago I would be in a much healthier, stronger and good physical shape. When I reached the point where I needed to reap the benefits of being an Ex-Non-Smoker, I regretted that I ever started this NASTY, much addictive habit! I finally realized that it is never too late to do the right thing, so I started a non-smoking program and have continued to this day.

If there is anything you regret, ask God to forgive you for making wrong choices and do what you can to correct it. If there is nothing you can do, then learn from it and make better choices in the future. Don't let your thoughts of the past haunt for future!

Love yourself today and don’t let the regrets of the past ruin your future ~ we were made for so much more than that!

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